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I'm 15 going into my sophomore year of high school

I'm 15 going into my sophomore year of high school

I'm 15 going into my sophomore year of high school, i have medium length light brown/blondish hair, i would say skinny but not toned lol, greenish gold eyes. I would say i have a pretty good fashion sense and i'm really nice and shy. A lot of my friends are dating or have had boyfriends and there first kiss and all of that but i mean i don't wanna rush any of that. Sometimes it really bothers me though because my friends will be like "ugh its been 8 months since a guy called me beautiful".... I've never been called beautiful by a guy... The closest i have ever come to a relationship was in like 5th grade i was best friends with this boy and we liked each other, now i have a few guy friends but there all gay and friends with all other girls, not other guys. The only guys im friends with who aren't gay and kinda like creepy nerds. I just don't think I'm very good at flirting and maybe i'm just not attractive at all and i have some type of illusion i mean i really really don't wanna seem concited because i know im not the prettiest thing out there but i'm not ugly. Is there anything I can do to kinda improve myself?
I think any girl would be uncomfortable with her boyfriend

I think any girl would be uncomfortable with her boyfriend

I think any girl would be uncomfortable with her boyfriend having time alone with his ex. It's pretty basic common sense; no reasonable girl would be comfortable with her boyfriend cuddling with another girl, no matter how "platonic" its claimed to be. You're making this girl out to be unreasonable, when in all actuality you seem to be being a bit unreasonable. How would you feel if your boyfriend spent his free time seeing his ex girlfriend (especially if he and his ex seemed closer than you and him)

You really only have two options. One, you can respect the boundaries of your friends relationship (this doesn't mean you have to end it). Or, you can take a chance and see if he would break up with his girlfriend to be with you

Either way, whether or not this girl has other flaws (if she's whiny, "pathetic", or overprotective), both you and your ex need to understand that her feelings are totally natural, and respect them. It sounds like your ex is seriously hurting this girl. He needs to find a way to fix that, if he loves her, no matter what his intentions may be. Who knows; your friend may even need to break up with his girlfriend if he's not willing to agree with her boundaries. His girlfriend can't make him do anything he doesn't want to
HI, i'm 16, 17 soon, female, live in the UK

HI, i'm 16, 17 soon, female, live in the UK

HI, i'm 16, 17 soon, female, live in the UK. going into year 12/alevels.
In year 9 (14) I went out with a guy, it lasted a couple of months and was my first proper relationship.
When we broke up I had flings with a few other guys and have had a long term relationship since, which ended a few months ago.
And for him, ever since then, has been with his girlfriend that he's still with now.

A couple of months ago me and him got back in contact when he got my number from a friend and text me, inviting me to his house party, i went and afterwards we started talking on facebook and had a good catch up.
since then we've become much closer as we both suffer depression and anxiety, and we understand each other in that sense (plus we just get on naturally)
when we meet up we just sit and chat and I feel relaxed because I can be myself with him. We're both bisexual and always joke around calling each other gay best friends...sometimes we cuddle if one of us is feeling really down and it is honestly completely innocent.

The problem lies with his girlfriend, as obviously she doesn't like how close we are. Me and her are/were friends, but now she bitches about me to him and never has anything good to say about me,,,plus she does pathetic things like when she meets up with him she stalks my instagram and calls me ugly..? and then doesn't like it when he stands up for me.
I understand that she may see me as a 'threat' or feel odd because we are ex's....but I mean come on, it was like three years ago, and it wasn't a properly serious relationship anyway?
She is also just obsessed with lying around watching reality tv shows and claims to be anorexic for attention, and her personality is changing from when we were friends a few months ago, into a boring whiney beg. She's made stupid rules with him now where she doesn't want him to meet up with me alone (although we still do) and says she can't trust me? when I have never broken her trust before?

She has never had the guts to tell me face to face that she feels uncomfortable, or what her problem is, we are starting at the same college next week and although we are doing different courses, I will still see her around, and I don't want things to be awkward any more between us, as I have done nothing wrong.
I personally feel that she is insecure in her own relationship and doesn't trust HIM, buuuut, It's unfair that she is ruining a valuable friendship.
I came out to my friends in my early teens

I came out to my friends in my early teens

I came out to my friends in my early teens but I knew I was gay since I was like five.

My parents actually got divorced because when I started to act gay my mom wanted to beat me straight and my dad got mad at her and tried to shoot her to protect me.

He went to prison and died two years later.